23 7 / 2014

If i post something under a “read more” i would prefer if you did not reblog it. It means its something personal and im using tumblr to vent.

23 7 / 2014

baconisbetterthanlove:

Read More

Um, you dont have asks on so i cant say it there but please delete your reblog of this. I dont know why you reblogged it, but i would prefer if you deleted it, if it is a read more it is not meant to be reblogged, at least that is how i use read mores.

(via miserableeuphoria)

23 7 / 2014

busterkuri replied to your post “Ew”

You can block sponsored posts if you have XKit.

oh yeah, i swear i already did but ill double check

23 7 / 2014

Fifty shades of suck sponsored posts. Go away.

23 7 / 2014

are you fucking kidding me?

so apparently i should not have tagged that super emotional post with mom because a bunch of milf porn blogs liked it and are following me.

so gross. i hate gross porn blogs, and i hate bots, and i dont understand why those blogs exist.

23 7 / 2014

highball2814:

Bitch should put out.

So, nobody owes anybody sex ever. This comment is so gross.

highball2814:

Bitch should put out.

So, nobody owes anybody sex ever. This comment is so gross.

(Source: afternoonsnoozebutton)

22 7 / 2014

red-sequin-apples:

wretchedoftheearth:

baconisbetterthanlove:

secretandroid:

the concept of trigger warnings entering mainstream awareness is very frequently leading to bullshit like:

"but if we start putting TWs on everything how will these people ever learn to cope with their trauma????"

like excuse me but you obviously aren’t a trained professional and know nothing about how exposure therapy or PTSD treatments actually work, so shut the fuck up because nobody cares what you think, your opinions are 100% irrelevant

not to mention, there is this idea that “well if you need trigger warnings then you should be in therapy!”

not everyone can afford therapy. and even if you can, therapy takes time. you don’t go once and suddenly stop being triggered by traumatic content.

not to mention, people often use trigger warnings on tumblr and other platforms because they are trying to create a safe space. so why not make that space a little more thoughtful and caring, so that they can scroll through their dash and look at gifs of cute animals without coming across something to ruin their day.

yeah, and therapy is difficult even if you can do it. i did weekly therapy and it was hard to go to sometimes because i knew what i’d have to relive. so the process of treating trauma and healing from can be painful and make people either not want to start or finish therapy.

Also also: even if part of how you’re learning to cope with your trauma is gradually exposing yourself to your triggers, trigger warnings aren’t preventing anyone from facing their triggers. Warnings are simply informing about the triggers so you can decide whether or not to expose yourself to them at any given moment. People who argue against tw’s are literally saying that people should be exposed to triggering things without their knowledge or consent.

This post just keeps getting better. That is such a great point. 

22 7 / 2014

to those of you who liked/responded to that post.

i’m going to go talk to my dad about it (if anyone else gets it its the guy who used to be married to her) so im in a better place at the moment.

it does help a lot to get validation, so thank you again. you have no idea how much it helps.

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22 7 / 2014